Kah Ji Ma...Don't go...

It’s just a simple 2 words(or three if you say the Korean version).

Recently have been watching Korean shows a lot and I realise that all, and I mean ALL, Korean shows will have this dialogue, ‘Kah Ji Mah’. (Don’t go)

Whenever the male/female lead says this line, he/she would be full of emotion and love in their eyes. Most of the time, they would also have lots to say to the other party but because of circumstances, can’t say it out loud. It’s always this part that touches me the most.

I’ve always wished to be able to have someone who can look me in the eyes and say these 3 words, ‘Kah Ji Ma’ or Don’t go, to me. When I was leaving for US, I wished to have someone say it to me too. I think, if there was such someone, I would gladly give up everything and stay for him. Yes, there’s friends who said it out of uncertainty and worries for me. However, theirs is not the same as when it’s said by a lover. This may be the reason why, now that I’m back, I wish to go away again.

There’s a lot of reason to why I want to go away. The freedom, the friends, the excitement of meeting new people and exploring new places. However, the most important reason for going away is there’s a lack of reason to stay.